tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3000911132009365087.post1107962721504113330..comments2024-01-18T02:55:46.340-08:00Comments on beautifully dangerous: recognize the bait - recognize the hookTammyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04600539516918179668noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3000911132009365087.post-54860372716292132302017-07-24T21:05:41.953-07:002017-07-24T21:05:41.953-07:00Fragile masculinity. It weakens men. And yes, it...Fragile masculinity. It weakens men. And yes, it is absolutely part of patriarchy, because patriarchy is all about toxic power relationships. Kai Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13319136737099550784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3000911132009365087.post-88763472076469479032017-05-28T16:14:58.102-07:002017-05-28T16:14:58.102-07:00It is always amusing to me how dedicated women are...It is always amusing to me how dedicated women are to a very precise and detailed analysis of everything that motivates a man, whether they have a psychology degree or not, and when the tables are turned everything becomes so vague and ambiguous.<br /><br />Your blog post is familiar to any man who is over the age of 18, starting with sisters and mom, and moving on to girlfriends and then daughters, aren't women so skilled at searching, probing, analyzing. <br /><br />Psychologists call this projection. Hide your own failings by going out of your way to point out and exaggerate the failings of others. Satisfying isn't it? Feels so good to get it out.<br /><br />It's all bullshit though. No one is weirder or more competitive than a woman, especially with members of the opposite sex, and since the internet came along, men have been able to compare notes and the game is up.<br /><br />Oh, the poor little gentle soul, she just wanted to study martial arts, and her man couldn't handle it, so here, girls, is how you deal with it.<br /><br />No one believes it anymore. Your article itself is a manifestation of the endlessly competitive female tendency. Women don't innocently and humbly take self defense classes. They come home with a swagger, and act tougher than they are, and men put up with it because they are nice guys.<br /><br />Here's a more realistic scenario, this blog post. <br /><br />http://judgybitch.com/2016/10/25/martial-arts-mens-rights-and-what-it-means-to-be-a-man/<br /><br />Look at this woman, look at the delusion and pride. This sort of thing is real talk, what men are up against in real relationships with real women.<br /><br />Imagine having to come home to your darling who writes things like this:<br /><br />"My husband refuses to join me. He wants nothing to do with this. There is no part of his being that relishes or enjoys violence, and he does not want to learn the brutality and savagery that sets my blood on fire. He watched me train briefly, and found it disturbing. He would prefer I stop. I am not the person he knows when you hand me a blunt edged weapon. Hunting is one thing. He is fine with that. Fighting is another. He is not fine with it."<br /><br />Okay. That was fun to write. It can help you as well. Men are wising up, and the jig is up girls. Men have become skeptical about you finally, at last. You no longer have the benefit of the doubt when you write these ridiculous things. You have equality, and we will hold you to the same standards and talk to you just like we do to men. And you're gonna hate it, because the finger of privilege has been pointed in the wrong direction all these years. And emotional equality is coming.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com